P.S. Because of the crime I DID commit, I am not allow to engage with minors. 
I can not do facebook, twitter or any social media. That is why I can not allow just 
anyone I don't know blog/respond on this website or to respond if I do not know you.

Seeing Our Situations

S.O.S. Commuinty starts here   :)

This page will be designed for you (the offender) to educate, empower and create different strategies all design to help find out what your drive is, what needs are you trying to meet. If you really are trying to stop, you are in luck. This is the place and conversation no one can have with you. We will provide everything I can to help stop and for some, to help you to never start. 


How can I do this, I have been to prison for a sex crime I did choose to commit in my past. This is not ( a bad mistake, or an accident, or I did know what I was doing.) Do not ever give that bullshit to anyone. I make a hurtful choice, got caught and went to prison. While in prison, I have always held space for people. I have heard many unfiltered stories from the sources them selves. Some really sorry and just wanted to be heard, some bragging and how they used people, and some from other people about other people on how to cope. ( I use to teach and mentor N.V.C NonViolent Communication.) N.V.C. will help you IF YOU USE AND APPLY IT. I also when through and complete S.O.T.P. ( Sex Offenders Treatment Program ) I did allow me to understand myself in many ways.  


So in connecting with you, I will use myself as an example when related without  leaving the victim I create feeling exposed in any way. I will be open, transparent and vulnerable in trying to reach you. I will use strong language for impact. I will tell you, show you how different people got caught up in their thoughts that lead them to offending with out tell you in the way they offended. 


Why do I have faith that you can stop it yourself when empowered?

Because I KNOW you were no born this way!!! I know that you learned this some how outside of your self. I know the power of how just a single thought can tear you down to alone and hopeless. I know that your acting behavior is an expression of what influenced you. We need to look at those other influences more closely. Remember, you and your thoughts are 90% of other people and things around you. 


Why am I doing this, First and up most, I am helping and supporting the unabuse, the abused and the survivors. 

And the best way to help and support them is by helping and supporting you. 

3rd, I going to start and have this conversation. It is going to grow in help, support and in healing. I have learned that if the abuse does not stop, separation has to be made. I don't believe prison is the best way, BUT IT DOES STILL WORK. So there will be a place in life where, it will only be a matter of time before we will find out about you.

We will find out about you only because you could not stop your abuse, molestation, offending, your rape. 


Down below, you can choose what you associate or relate to. I going to bring a new look or spin on them, These are behaviors produced by thought first. Lets look at these as thoughts first, where did they first come from. What needs come from them and how can we meet these needs in a healthy way. 



 

I  am still working on it.