P.S. Because of the crime I DID commit, I am not allow to engage with minors. 
I can not do facebook, twitter or any social media. That is why I can not allow just 
anyone I don't know blog/respond on this website or to respond if I do not know you.

Seeing Our Situations

S.O.S. Commuinty starts here   :)

The 5 hardest questions you will ever be ask!!!

(1) How would you feel when you knew you were looking at a sexually abused/raped child?

(hold that for a few seconds).....

(2) How would you feel if you were sexually abuse/raped.

(hold that for a few seconds).....

(3) How would you feel if YOU were the one who sexually abused/raped that child?

(hold that for a few seconds).....

Would you cry, scream out at life, be angry all the time, would you pretend normal and act as it never happen? would you try to cover it up? try to have that quiet uncomfortable talk with that child? Hate your self, Blame your self? Sometimes even hurt yourself or just end it all ?!? 

(4) When and where did you learn from life, (your world) that it was tolerable to sexual abuse, molest or rape? When you got this thought, did you have anyone to turn too?

(5) Will you be that person that we could turn too? Will you hold space for us, hear us so we can hear ourselves? Help be part of our influence and foundation so that we are not alone loosing our power to just a thought?


Because you will be having this conversation with someone you know and love.

This could be your with your spouse, your parent all the down to your child.

(you should look up the growth of women and child offenders on the net, adjudicated child offender are as young as 6. )

These people are also in your religious family and even in leadership.

Over 90% of sexual offending are done by close friends and family members.

You know these people, you are already holding space for them on some level,

will you hold more, will you announce your self.... " I am here to hold space for anyone in my family for their wellness and whole being. 

How big is your family space? Who are you calling family.

I am calling upon all people who believe in the power of love, miracles, healing, integrity and transformation. Who have the power to hear and create space for the abused and the abusers. Who are not afraid to ask when they see something wrong or a little odd and open to being wrong and hold when in the right. People team up with other people to support and come in numbers when needed.

Who will you be and how will this world look like when we create sexual mutuality and equality that ends sexual abuse and rape.

Will you help us start this conversation, share this website, and create a world movement? Will you learn to hold space to hear others? 

Final note:

For even an abuser is abused when his abuse is allowed to continue. This is not healing to the abuser, but damaging!!!

For if the abuser finds that this abuse will be acceptable, what has he learned? 

Yet if the abuser finds that his abuse will be accepted no more, what has he been allowed to discover? (CWG) 

And this goes for all kinds of abuses out there, no matter from home, business or government!!!